seventh.

princples learned:
1. we need to learn to understand what is going off in other people's minds when communicating with them
2. don't be defensive, redirect anger somewhere else

apply these princples:
do not direct my anger at people, and direct anger coming towards me elsewhere

teach:
to james

report:
we want to try to control our anger and in doing so when we are angry, we would like to learn to be able to project it somewhere else than at eachother